Life is a series of changes. What people need to remember is that our individual life journey will see transitions and phases.
The path God has set for us is not straight, there are curves, there are turns we will take, and we will face crossroads. There are choices we will make.
It is also a choice to start over in life. When you feel like you are not satisfied with your career anymore, when you feel like your relationship is only giving you pain, when you feel your passion shift to a different route, it is alright to swerve lanes or turn a corner.
This does not mean that you have lost in life or that you are a failure for not finishing what you have started. The truth is that you have learned your lessons and your experiences have led you to this decision.
How To Start Over in Life
Asking how you can start over in life is already a big testament to your courage and bravery. Not many people can drop their plans and start over. Not many will take the risk into another unknown.
Your wise soul understands the phases of your journey. And your spirit guides have led you here to take the risk and embrace the changes coming to you.
The first step you need to do to start over in life is by understanding yourself.
- Who are you?
- Who do you want to be in the future?
- What do you want to achieve?
- What are your goals?
- How committed are you to achieving your goals?
Understanding who you are and what you want in life is the right direction in starting over life.
You cannot successfully start over when you do not know who you are and why you are trying to start over.
You have to start by being your authentic self. By discovering your needs and wants. This is when you can truly live the life you want away from the expectations of others.
Only when you are expressing who you are will you start to come up with your desired goals. Your passion will flow where it is supposed to go, and you will be able to pursue the desires of your heart.
Knowing yourself also means establishing your personal core values.
Like your life, your values change over time. Every time you acquire new experiences and lessons in life, your values shift.
There are things you prioritize more now compared to before. There are values you have let go of because they do not resonate with you anymore.
Establishing your core values will give you clearance to pursue what is more important to you and appropriately prioritize your goals. This is when you start living life authentically.
How can you live your life authentically?
You start by shedding the parts of yourself that are NOT YOU.
But what is it that is really YOU?
All through the years, you have accumulated everything about your body and your mind. Everything you believe has been from the outside. You are not the car you drive, the neighborhood you live in, or the status in society. You’re more than that.
What about the inside?
Look within and you’ll start to have a clearer idea of what it is you’re supposed to do with your life according to your terms.
You can use this simple method to shed off the things that are NOT YOU.
Think of the things and people in your life and start by asking questions like…
- Are my job and status in life, me?
- Is my house and my car, me?
- Is my bank account, me?
- Are my spouse and children, me?
- Is my body me?
- Are my thoughts and emotions me?
All of these are not YOU, so everything that is not you, you remind yourself that it is a role you’re playing but that role isn’t fundamentally you.
One by one when you mentally keep everything aside that you are NOT, one day, what will be left there will be your true self. The authentic expression of your soul and your divine purpose for this life.
Pay a little more attention within
All of us have too many preconceptions about things around us. If you make conclusions based on your current limited perception, chances are you’ll be limited in your ability to express your true self. That’s why you need to pay attention to the life within you.
The spark of life within you deserves your attention. If you pay attention, everything will be clear to you about yourself
Don’t be someone who knows a great deal about other people but doesn’t know a thing about yourself.
What you know are truths that have been projected in the spaces of your mind. And you don’t know anything other than this.
Paying attention to what’s within you will help you find some truths based on who you are through your experiences. It will allow you to see things the way it is and not be tainted by any lens of perception and identification.
You can start by meditating or asking your angels for guidance. As they reveal more and more who you really are, eventually you will be good at paying attention to the life within you and seeing things as it is.
When you pay more attention, you will get to know more about yourself, and it would be easier to live an authentic life.
Is there a life you want to live? A relationship you’ve always wanted to pursue and have the courage to say the words, “I love you?” Or a song that you’ve always wanted to write and sing? Don’t let your music die in you – it’s waiting to be sung.
Be passionate about life
Life should be lived passionately and on fire and to follow your heart.
In fact, there is no time to set the modes of life into medium or low when it comes to passion. When you operate your life on high passion, life will just go by and will feel very short as you enjoy living your life.
Being passionate about life will help you find the way to express how a human being should be to life’s various possibilities.
When your spirit is sparked with passion, you can express yourself the way you should be in the context of your essence.
Only those who are unaligned and blocked in many aspects of their lives will feel the drudgery of a long and mundane life because they are not able to express the language of their soul. They spend their life accumulating people and unimportant things around them.
But if you explore the extent of being human and express it authentically by being passionate about life, it will be a brief but fruitful life. That’s why it is important to be always on fire with life.
The time to live authentically… is NOW.
Do things consciously
Whatever you have or what’s going on within you, is it going on consciously or unconsciously?
It is very important that whatever you do, every thought you make, every emotion you feel, every action you make is happening in a conscious way.
It is because your ability to be conscious is the same thing as your ability to communicate with the universe and everything in it.
And your every action and every expression are your contribution to some extent to a little or big aspect of the world.
And in doing so, you express your very essence for the world to hear and recognize.
Just doing these things will help you refine your true essence and your true message to the world and begin to live authentically.
Let Your Angels Help You Find Who You Are
Your first goal in starting over in life is to be able to live the life you want. You want to let go of all the pressure and expectations that have led you to your previous paths.
Now you want to take the road with confidence and knowledge that you are living the life you have envisioned for yourself.
Archangel Sandalphon is here to remind you that you can do it. That this is the first step toward your destined path.
Archangel Sandalphon wants to remind you to be who you are and establish what you believe in, it will help guide your life and make it easier for others to understand where you are coming from.
Archangel Sandalphon is the angel of expression and music. He helps humanity in finding themselves and express who they are without inhibitions.
Archangel Sandalphon wants you to be yourself. Archangel Sandalphon also wants you to live a new life with authenticity and passion.
He knows that that’s not always easy, or even possible. You might feel like you have to put on a mask or hide your true self in order to fit in with others or be accepted. But he wants you to know that he sees who you really are, and he loves you for it!
He wants you to know that being true to yourself is the only way to find peace and happiness. He knows that when we’re hiding parts of ourselves, it can feel like there’s a part of us missing—and that can make us feel lonely and sad.
The angelic realm is filled with beings who want nothing more than for us to find balance and peace within ourselves so we can be at our happiest and healthiest selves. They want us all to live up to our potential—and they won’t judge us for who we are or what we do along the way!
With this simple prayer, you can ask Archangel Sandalphon for help and guidance.
Oh, Dear Archangel Sandalphon, I am so grateful for all the blessings you have bestowed upon me. I pray that you will continue to lead me in the right direction and keep me safe from harm.
I have been through a lot lately, but I know that it is all leading toward a brighter future. I ask that you guide me on my journey and help me realize my full potential. Help me to be the best version of myself, so that others may also see their own potential through my example.
I also want to thank you for all the blessings that have already come into my life. You have given so much to me, and now it is time for me to give back by sharing your gifts with others in need of your protection and guidance.